Martha and I met at Purdue University. We were both freshmen. I was just out of four years in the Marines, and she was just out of high school. She lived in Duhme Hall, and I lived in the Cary Quadrangle. One evening the Cary West student leaders decided to have a little party in the cafeteria. They caalled several of the women’s dorms and invited any and all. There was a pretty good turnout. Yhe intent was to have a mixer and have people get acquainted.

The had a DJ pop and snacks. I guess that was all that was needed. I had just been introduced to Martha When they announced they were having a twist contest. I asked her if she wanted to and she said yes. It was a big surprise when we won. Then they had a juggalug contest using root beer which I won. All in all a good evening. I walked her back to her dorm and said good night. I did tell her i iked her and would loke to see her again sometime.

The next week they had a Sadie Hawkins dance. This is where the girls invite the guys. Martha called me and ask if i wanted to go. I said yes. She showed up with a bouquet for me that was some flowers through a Sam Cook twist record.

The rest is history; we continued to date and two years later got married. It lasted sixty years until her passing. I miss her so.

4 thoughts on “How we met

  1. rachel

    I have yet to experience this phase in my life, passing of a spouse. When my grandpa died, my grandmother said she never felt so lonely ever in her life. You have a whole community out there for you always.

  2. Jackie o

    I enjoyed hearing how folks enjoyed college fun in another generation and of course the story of two sweethearts meeting. A love like that is the most special thing in a lifetime. Thank you for sharing!

    Sincerely,
    A gen z fan of your stories

  3. Katie

    Thank you for sharing your stories. This is a beautiful one. I love root beer! It sounds like the start of something magical and fun filled. Your story inspires me. Thanks again

  4. Divinia

    Me and my boyfriend just went to a Sadie Hawkins dance!! This was a beautiful post to read, I am extremely inspired by your guys’ love story.

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